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Have you ever wished that sex came with a user manual?

Like clear, specific, step-by-step instructions for how you and your partner could have toe-curling, bedframe-breaking experiences that make you go, “OH, this is what sex is all about!” 



As a couple who have been together for 14 years, we’ve always wanted our own user manual. We love each other deeply, but we’ve been frustrated by how easy it can be to get into a sexual rut. You know, where sex feels predictable down to the minute? 

We kept wondering, “Is it possible to keep having sex that is as hot, exciting, and frequent — like when we first met — for decades to come?”

Fortunately, we’ve now discovered that the answer is HELL YES. And we want to show you how in Better, Hotter, More!

The good news is that now it does! 

best. sex. ever.

It’s all in the name. Better, Hotter, More is a 6-week course that teaches you and your partner the secrets to having better, hotter, and more sex! 

Taught by a real-life couple, the course covers every aspect of sex from initiation to orgasm, and gives you actionable tips for creating the sex life you’ve always secretly dreamed of. All from the privacy and comfort of your own home. 

Better, Hotter, More gives you...

supreme satisfaction

Sex so good you finally understand what all the fuss is about. Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.

unshakeable confidence

Get in touch with your body, discover what you like, and know how to ask for it. 

deep desire

When pleasure is a priority for both of you, sex becomes irresistible — so you’ll be craving it too! 

everlasting intimacy

You develop a stronger connection with your partner, becoming a powerful team inside and outside the bedroom. 

Better, Hotter, More is meant for all kinds of couples. It’s for couples who already have a good sex life and want to make it next-level amazing and it’s for couples who are feeling a bit disconnected from each other, and just not having the quality of sex they know they’re capable of.

 



It won’t even take that much time. We’re all busy these days, so we’ve purposefully designed Better, Hotter, More to work for time-crunched couples who are looking for some quick wins. The lessons are short and to the point — we’re talking 2-10 minutes! 

And you won’t have to become a completely different person either. Enjoyable, exciting sex doesn’t require you to act like a porn star or dress like a Victoria’s Secret supermodel.

Please note that this course is designed for male/female couples. All of our other programs are inclusive, but we saw the need to address dynamics specific to male/female relationships. 

Better, Hotter, More is meant for all kinds of couples. It’s for couples who already have a good sex life and want to make it next-level amazing and it’s for couples who are feeling a bit disconnected from each other, and just not having the quality of sex they know they’re capable of.

It won’t even take that much time. We’re all busy these days, so we’ve purposefully designed Better, Hotter, More to work for time-crunched couples who are looking for some quick wins. The lessons are short and to the point — we’re talking 2-10 minutes! 

And you won’t have to become a completely different person either. Enjoyable, exciting sex doesn’t require you to act like a porn star or dress like a Victoria’s Secret supermodel.

Please note that this course is designed for male/female couples. All of our other programs are inclusive, but we saw the need to address dynamics specific to male/female relationships. 

Who is Better, Hotter, More for?

We promise you that you can transform your sex life and your relationship in just a few weeks, and with just a little bit of effort.

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 Don’t forget! You can try it risk-free for 14 days.

Here’s what you get when you join
Better, Hotter, More

Better, Hotter, More takes a completely shame-free approach to sex. The frustrating reality is that none of us were ever taught how to have a smokin’ hot sex life. In fact, we were taught a lot of BS that actively got in the way of that. There’s no finger-pointing in Better, Hotter, More. Just practical tools that you’ll be excited to put to use immediately. 

Fresh, fun, and sexy tools — This course is full of tips, techniques, and step-by-step processes designed to pump some excitement into the bedroom. Each week you’ll learn one of the six core components of an extraordinary sex life (we’re talking things like initiation, pleasure, and exploration), and you’ll create a “user manual” for your optimal experience. You’ll discover playful and unintimidating ways to make sex more enticing, erotic, and frequent!

Exciting exercises — The workbook is the other place where the magic happens! Your weekly “homeplay” tasks will take your transformation to the next level.

Lifetime access — Go at your own pace and revisit the material whenever your sex life needs a refresh.

Discretion — You can complete the entire program from the privacy of your home.

Risk-free money-back guarantee — You have 14 days from the start of the program to give it a try. If it’s not for you, we’ll give you your money back — no questions asked.

For less than the cost of dinner at that hot new sushi restaurant and tickets to a show (plus paying the babysitter!) you can invest in your relationship and join Better, Hotter, More.

And with our convenient payment plan,
you can get started for as little as $97. 

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How This Course Works

over the course of six weeks, We’re going to move through the 6 steps to an incredible sex life:

Module 1: Get On The Same Page

Everything you’ve been taught about sex is wrong!

In this module, you’ll discover how The Fucking Fairytale sabotages all of us, and how you can regain control of your sex life.

We’ll also set you up for success with our Five Agreements, so you can feel like an unstoppable team moving forward!

Module 2: Ask For What You Want With Confidence

Most people feel uncomfortable talking about sex; you’ve probably even had some bad experiences with it in the past.

Starting this module will mark the beginning of clear and open lines of communication between you and your partner when it comes to sex.

We’ll give you our Six Communication Commandments, and show you ways to deliver feedback and requests that will instantly make sex way hotter! (Just wait until you learn about Positively Pleasurable feedback…) 

Module 3: Stay Connected In And Out Of The Bedroom

Emotional intimacy leads to more and better sex!

This module shows you how to stay emotionally connected before, during, and after sex, leading to more passion in and out of the bedroom.

You’ll learn your and your partner’s sex drive type (a crucial piece of information for a healthy and thriving sex life) along with a solution for when one partner isn’t enjoying and desiring sex as much as the other.

Module 4: Initiate Sex So Your Partner Will Want To Say Yes

Take the mystery out of initiating sex! We’re giving you actionable steps to make moves that your partner will want to say “HELL YES!” to.

You’ll discover your unique Initiation Styles, how to write your Sex Menus, and the powerful Consideration process. 

Module 5: Maximize Pleasure

Get CONFIDENT giving and receiving pleasure!

In this module, you’ll break down the Orgasm Gap in your relationship, and discover how to have sex that prioritizes both partner’s pleasure. 

We’ll help you improve and add to your technique toolkit with extremely hot touch, foreplay, and intercourse tips that you’ll want to try out ASAP. 

Have you ever wished sex came with a user manual? After this module, you’ll have one for your and your partner’s ideal sexual experience!

Module 6: Keep It Spicy For Life

Does sex feel… routine? The same every time? Maybe even a little too vanilla for your liking?

This part of the course will open your eyes to a world of new possibilities for having the best sex of your life, FOR life.

We’ll walk you through how to actually try something new so you can spice it up over and over (and over and over)...

Hear from real couples who’ve
transformed their lives…

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“This sounds awesome, but I’m nervous about talking to my partner…”

you're not alone!

We hear from so many people who are dying to change things up in the bedroom but the fear of having an awkward conversation holds them back.

That’s why we've included a resource in the Welcome Module to help you get your partner on board!

Does the idea of even mentioning an online sex course to your partner make you want to hide under a blanket? 

This is normal… Of course you don’t want your partner to feel insecure about such a sensitive topic. 

But don’t let your nerves get in the way of building the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

Exciting, craveable sex is meant for you — but you’ve got to take action to make it happen.

Here’s the good news: Better, Hotter, More takes a completely shame- and blame-free approach to sex. The frustrating reality is that none of us were ever taught how to have a smokin’ hot sex life. In fact, we were taught a lot of BS that actively got in the way of that. There’s no finger-pointing in Better, Hotter, More. Just practical tools that you’ll be excited to put to use immediately. 

And here’s the great news: if you need some help getting the conversation started, we got you! 

hi, we're vanessa  and xander marin!

If you’re new around here, Vanessa’s a licensed sex therapist with 20 years of experience and Xander’s a regular dude who left his job at Google so he could talk about sex all day with his wife. (Not a bad gig!)

We created this course because there are so many couples out there having just… OK sex. Decent sex. It gets the job done, but it isn’t full of passion and desire. 

Better, Hotter, More is our answer to all the questions, stories, and struggles you’ve shared with us over the years.

And just like you, this is something we also struggled with! We’ve had plenty of “get the job done” sex too. Our relationship has gone through seasons where the passion fizzled and things felt stagnant. 

It’s totally normal to experience plateaus in your relationship. To all of a sudden wonder, “When did things get so meh?” 

But you don’t have to settle for OK or decent or meh! 

you get to have extraordinary sex

Like, “I didn’t know it could ever feel this good” kind of sex. 

There’s so much potential pleasure for you to explore with your partner. Amazing sex builds intimacy, excitement, and creates a lasting bond. (And all those orgasms feel pretty fantastic too!)

Who wouldn’t want that!?

It’s easy to do just by ditching the misinformation you’ve been fed, trying a few new techniques, and discovering what turns you on.

Better, Hotter, More is a new kind of sex education that focuses on one simple equation… 

JOIN BETTER, HOTTER, MORE NOW!

 Don’t forget! You can try it risk-free for 14 days.

Ready to break through your mental blocks
and optimize your orgasms?

better sex = more sex

“What if sex feels a little… overrated?”

You might be reading over this page and thinking, “My situation sounds worse than what these guys are describing.” 

For you, sex might feel like this thing that everyone else is so obsessed with, but you’re not quite sure it lives up to the hype.

Maybe it feels a bit one-sided. Your partner’s always in the mood because sex is always a guaranteed orgasm for him. 

But you just don’t get that same level of enjoyment or feel the same desire. (And even have to fake your enthusiasm sometimes!) 

If you’re being brutally honest with yourself, sex is something you do to keep your partner happy. You just “go along with it.” 

We don’t want to scare you, but we need you to know that having uninspired, disconnected sex is doing more damage than you realize… 

Every time you settle for sex that’s “OK” or “fine” instead of extraordinary — you’re making a choice. Instead of your intimacy growing it starts to shrink. 

But you can make a different choice! 



First, you need to know that there is nothing wrong with you.

  • Maybe you and your partner have mismatched sex drives. (Don’t worry this is easy to overcome!) 

  • Or you’re carrying around some religious or cultural baggage that makes it difficult to get out of your head and enjoy sex. (This is true for so many people!)

  • Maybe you don’t know what you like in bed — let alone how to ask your partner to try something new. (Even though you have a hunch he’d be happy to change things up!)

  • Or you’re just plain EXHAUSTED. Life feels incredibly hectic these days — with the kids, obligations at work, plus responsibilites at home — so it’s hard to find the time and energy to prioritize your sex life. (Spoiler alert: amazing sex gives you the energy to get all the other stuff done!)

If we’re keeping things real, most couples aren’t having earth-shattering, bed-frame-destroying sexual escapades every single night. 

Real couples (not the fictional ones you see on TV) are dealing with tons of challenges when it comes to keeping the spark alive.

We'll show you how in Better, Hotter, More.

But the good news is that this is all totally fixable. 

All the answers to your
Better, Hotter, More questions!

We know talking to your significant other about taking an online sex course can feel awkward. We hear from so many people who are dying to change things up in the bedroom but the fear of having an awkward conversation holds them back.

That’s why we've included a resource in the Welcome Module to help you get your partner on board!

The short answer — yes!

BUT if you’re in a relationship we suggest you take Better, Hotter, More along with your partner. It’s designed for couples, so you’re going to get a lot more out of the program when you do it together. 

Don’t worry — we make it feel fun, not like work!

If you’re nervous about talking to your partner about the course, scroll back up to the last question for some help.

If you’re not in a relationship, you can still take Better, Hotter, More! It will give you the tools to know what you want and how to ask for it with your next partner. 


We know you’re busy, and we’ve done our best to give you the crucial information you need in as short of a time as possible. 

You’ll need about 2 hours a week to go through the videos and complete the exercises. 


This course is designed for heterosexual couples who feel like the spark is fading and want to bring back the magic.

We aim to make our programs and content inclusive, but what we’re covering in Better, Hotter, More is specific to the unique challenges in male/female relationships. 

If you’re not in a heterosexual relationship but interested in improving your sex life check out our other guides and courses here

Generally happy couples who are looking to improve their sex life will get the best results from this program. If you’re going through a rough patch or dry spell, but willing to invest time into rebuilding your connection — Better, Hotter, More can help you do that.



If you’re committed to the process — then yes! Like everything in life, you’ll get out exactly what you put into this course. 

Come into it with an open mind and a willingness to learn and you’ll be surprised at how much can change in just six weeks. 



Yes, we offer a 14 day money-back guarantee, so you can try Better, Hotter, More risk-free. If you decide it’s not right for you, just send us an email within the 14 day period and we’ll give you a full refund.



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OH, this is what sex is all about!

Sex has the potential to be one of life's best experiences.

So when sex is described as a “wifely duty” — it means something’s missing.

If sex looks like five minutes of missionary and then rolling over and going to sleep — something’s missing. 

If sex feels one-sided, unbalanced, or as routine as brushing your teeth — something’s missing.



You deserve to be as excited and amped up about getting it on as your partner. 

To be confident enough to initiate sex and ask for what you want in bed — and know you’ll get it.

To own your pleasure, take your time, and enjoy more orgasms. 

Hot, passionate sex isn’t just for new relationships or R-rated movies. You get to experience it too.

But you have to take a little step outside your comfort zone.




It’s time for the two of you to become one of “those couples.” 


🔥 Your friends wonder how you and your partner can still be all over each other after so many years. 

🔥 You have that lit-from-within-glow that might make people think you’re pregnant. (It’s the orgasms!)
 
🔥 Not only are you and your partner having amazing, fulfilling sex, but you’re more connected emotionally. You’re laughing at inside jokes, planning an epic vacation, and talking about your future. 

🔥 You’re flirting and you don’t even realize it. From a playful pat on the butt to sending a spicy sext — you feel like a couple of teenagers again.

🔥 And all of a sudden you’re craving sex. You never used to initiate before, but now it’s as natural as suggesting pizza for dinner.




If you’re ready to experience passion and pleasure that makes you go, “OH, this is what sex is all about!” then it’s time for you to take action. 

Amazing sex is just a few clicks away, so what are you waiting for?

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